What is Pegging....
and how to explore and enjoy it.
As I am busy with my new book, I thought this was a good one to repost…
I was sitting today working on some material and thought that there is no time like the present to provide a bit of information regarding pegging. For those wondering what it is...
Pegging is a sexual practice where a person wearing a strap-on dildo penetrates their partner anally. While it might seem unconventional to some, pegging has gained popularity in recent years, especially as discussions around sexual exploration and gender roles have become more open.
During pegging, the person wearing the strap-on, often referred to as the “top” or “dominant partner,” assumes a penetrative role, while the receiving partner, known as the “bottom” or “submissive partner,” is penetrated anally. This reversal of traditional gender roles can be a source of excitement and empowerment for both partners.
There are several reasons why people enjoy pegging:
Exploration of Power Dynamics: Pegging allows couples to explore power dynamics in their relationship. It can be a way for partners to switch roles and experience different levels of control and submission. While some may see pegging as a means for a Domme to exert dominance over a submissive, it’s important to note that it is often a wonderfully pleasurable act between consenting adults, regardless of their dynamic.
Prostate Stimulation: The prostate, sometimes referred to as the “male G-spot,” is located inside the rectum and can be stimulated through anal penetration. Many people find prostate stimulation intensely pleasurable and report experiencing more intense orgasms as a result.
Variety and Novelty: For some, pegging adds variety and novelty to their sexual experiences. It can be a way to spice up a long-term relationship or explore new sexual fantasies together.
Breaking Taboos: Pegging challenges traditional gender and sexual norms, allowing individuals to break free from societal expectations and explore their desires without judgment.
As with any sexual activity, communication and consent are crucial when it comes to pegging. It’s essential for partners to discuss their desires, boundaries, and any concerns they may have before engaging in pegging. Open and honest communication can help ensure that both partners feel comfortable and safe throughout the experience.
Prior to engaging in pegging, it’s important to take certain safety precautions:
◾Use Lubrication: The anus does not naturally lubricate like the vagina, so using plenty of water-based lubricant is essential to prevent discomfort or injury.
◾Start Slow: Anal penetration requires patience and gradual progression. Start with smaller toys or fingers before moving on to larger dildos or strap-ons.
◾Choose the Right Equipment: Invest in a high-quality strap-on harness and dildo designed specifically for pegging. Make sure the dildo is the right size and shape for both partners’ comfort and pleasure.
◾Practice Safe Sex: Using condoms on the dildo can help prevent the transmission of STIs and make cleanup easier.
Pegging can be a fun and fulfilling sexual experience for couples willing to explore new sensations and dynamics in their relationship. By communicating openly, prioritising consent, and taking necessary safety precautions, couples can enjoy the pleasures of pegging while enhancing intimacy and trust in their relationship.